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Back to work…..

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With a bang?  Two babies, a new house and a whole load of toddler tantrums has seen me ready to return to the world of work.  Not an easy decision and not an easy task as a parent who has been out of the swing of it for several years.  Don’t get me wrong, I have loved every (read 90%) minute of maternity leave, there are so many things I will miss, all the challenges but work is a calling…time to balance my needs with the needs of the family.

I dabbled with freelancing but missed the buzz of people and the feeling of being part of something

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with spark…then I saw an ad, one of the first in a while that caught my attention, the only downfall…full time….I applied anyway.

The company seemed exciting, there was a strong sense of innovation, ideas and technology and I really wanted to be part of it but the reality that is child care and the ridiculous costs overtakes the ability to work full time, I contacted the MD to explain that reluctantly, this was not going to work for me at this moment in time.

I forgot about it until a week or so later when my Inbox pinged and I was delighted

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that it was not another email from ASOS suggesting I consider buying a crop top and spray on rubber trousers (hiya babies…crop tops never again) and was pleasantly surprised to see Ryan’s name, an email asking me to come for a chat and if we think this would work, flexible working as an option.

We clicked and after meeting the Chairman, I was offered a job…3 days a week…1 of those days will be from home once a comfortable familiarity sets in and a full working day is 10-4 (thanks to our Scandinavian friends for being eternally

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awesome).

Every parents dream that has given me a flexible way back in.

My first week has been brill.  I packed all the bags and made the lunches the night before so it was a smooth up, coffee and out the house.  We dropped the kids at my parents (thanks mum…top nonna), Michael (husband/chauffeur) dropped me at the business park, breakfast and a walk before sitting down at my new desk.  I spent Monday acquainting myself with Linked In, the brand and my new bosses, Tuesday felt more natural and Thursday I felt right at home.

I have a lot to

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learn and a lot to give but it feels good being working mum.
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- 15 Apr 16

With a bang?  Two babies, a new house and a whole load of toddler tantrums has seen me ready to return to the world of work.  Not an easy decision and not an easy task as a parent who has been out of the swing of it for several years.  Don’t get me wrong, I have loved every (read 90%) minute of maternity leave, there are so many things I will miss, all the challenges but work is a calling…time to balance my needs with the needs of the family.

I dabbled with freelancing but missed the buzz of people and the feeling of being part of something with spark…then I saw an ad, one of the first in a while that caught my attention, the only downfall…full time….I applied anyway.

The company seemed exciting, there was a strong sense of innovation, ideas and technology and I really wanted to be part of it but the reality that is child care and the ridiculous costs overtakes the ability to work full time, I contacted the MD to explain that reluctantly, this was not going to work for me at this moment in time.

I forgot about it until a week or so later when my Inbox pinged and I was delighted that it was not another email from ASOS suggesting I consider buying a crop top and spray on rubber trousers (hiya babies…crop tops never again) and was pleasantly surprised to see Ryan’s name, an email asking me to come for a chat and if we think this would work, flexible working as an option.

We clicked and after meeting the Chairman, I was offered a job…3 days a week…1 of those days will be from home once a comfortable familiarity sets in and a full working day is 10-4 (thanks to our Scandinavian friends for being eternally awesome).

Every parents dream that has given me a flexible way back in.

My first week has been brill.  I packed all the bags and made the lunches the night before so it was a smooth up, coffee and out the house.  We dropped the kids at my parents (thanks mum…top nonna), Michael (husband/chauffeur) dropped me at the business park, breakfast and a walk before sitting down at my new desk.  I spent Monday acquainting myself with Linked In, the brand and my new bosses, Tuesday felt more natural and Thursday I felt right at home.

I have a lot to learn and a lot to give but it feels good being working mum.

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I am a 30 something word lover. I was born in Glasgow and have spent a number of years living in Melbourne. I have been back home for 5 years, 2 babies down the line and I’m trying to find my balance in the world of work and parenting.

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