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CONFESSIONS OF A MALL MUM
I’m sorry that I have strayed. It’s not you, it’s me. Or maybe it is you. I just want an easy life, and sometimes chain stores offer me that. I want a cafe I can pull a buggy into without running anyone over, and I want a loo with baby-change facilities and enough room to swing a cat, or a child, or two.
I hope that we rekindle our love affair soon..
x
The letter would go something like that…
You see, I’ve strayed from the cool, cultured, creative independent shops I used to love. I’ve dumped them, for
These days you are more likely to find me in Pizza Express than a cool little local Italian. I find it much easier shopping in House of Fraser than a stylish homewear shop off the beaten track. And shopping centres, of the sort I used to avoid, have suddenly become my mecca.
With two small munchkins in tow, if I need a shopping fix, I hotfoot it to EASY street… and who can blame me? Casual window-shopping in kooky shops up flights of
I discovered it might not be so easy to stick to my old haunts, soon after having my first son 4 years ago. My husband and I rocked up to our favourite pub, The Royal Oak on Columbia Road for lunch with friends.
Cue an embarrassing effort to get the buggy past the sea of hipsters to our table at the back, then with no room to leave it down, having to empty the contents of baby-paraphernalia so we could fold
Novice new parents, thinking we could just rock up to our old haunts with a baby in tow and not a care in the world! When Raff started hysterically crying for no reason, we decided to call it quits on Sunday lunch, leaving our friends only 45 mins after we’d arrived.
I might get mobbed for saying this, but give me Pizza
It’s as if my tastes have dramatically changed. Do you know where I found myself on ’Support our Small Shops day’ last year? John Lewis at Home, Tunbridge Wells. Not exactly a Small Shop.
As I pulled into the
To a tired, knackered, woman like me, in charge of an 18 month old, and 3.5 year old, John
Is it any wonder that at 9am at Westfield (Stratford or Shepherds Bush), you’ll find it choc full of mums who have been up since 6am, happily downing coffee while their buggies bother nobody, and toddlers run amock with no-one batting an eyelid? Where else can this happen?
The discount outlet McCarthurGlen is
Those cash-hungry, corporate, clever people who run big shopping centres know what make mothers like us tick. They’ve got our number. They even know that we’ll probably stay longer if they play old hits on the shopping centre soundtrack. It works.
I feel
Of course, I will never give up on independents, completely. But right now I much rather supporting them when I’m on my own – footloose and kid-free. Then, I’m happy to tackle steps. I don’t mind if I can’t swing a cat. I don’t mind squeezing between aisles. Or there being no loo. And visiting them on my own? Well, that time is truly precious.. bring it
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