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Feeling overwhelmed
I don’t think I feel sorry for myself, I just have so many thoughts I can’t do anything with and that’s nothing new but where as I usually get agitated and snappy, today I feel like I’ve taken one too many of my meds and now I’m just trying to get through the day from a sedated view point.
My main grievance today is my 18 year old, a series of events
Freya, 6, was getting ready for rainbows at the same time I was trying to have it out with the older one and was moaning on about whether she would get Olivia doll to take home today, she’s been going about 8 months now I think and her name has yet to be picked to take it home. So my response to this interruption to my argument with her sister? ”Freya, I think you should just
She just looked at me with sad little eyes and nodded.
Now of course by the end of rainbows she told me that while she hadn’t got Olivia again today, her name was definitely in the tin and she would get it at some point! So she’s probably not scarred for life but I was left thinking what an awful parent I am and what sort of an example was I giving her for later life in that statement.
The
Work by comparison was the easy 4 hours of the day it turned out.
I had to walk home which I’ve never done before and I was stressed I wouldn’t be back in
On getting to the school Mike turned up just as he was coming out and Lucas went straight to daddy and totally ignored me.
Lucas has been having a bad week since his friend was off school last week and seems to have reverted to his former fear of going to school but that’s another story.
When we got home Chloe was coming out with her ”friend” in normal
So, I’m already mad at this point as this is about the 7th time she hasn’t gone into work and she had promised me she wasn’t going to miss anymore but this is
So off she goes with her ”friend”
She then texts me later to ask if I’m going to take her to get these hoppers when she gets back?!
Mike is already on his way back from Bedford and hasn’t got them because of course she said she was going out to get them.
When I say no and explain all this she says ”well I decided to go to Jump with my friend instead”, this is a trampolining park, what we all do when we’ve got a headache and feel sick! Then she says she’s been into work and booked today and tomorrow off?!
My head is a total
So by the time she got home I’d lost it and told her to find somewhere else to live, she looks at me all confused like why don’t you love me? She doesn’t seem to mind that it will be me who picks up all the pieces when she gets fired and have to pay for her smoking habit and her trips out to see friends. It’s me that will have to deal with her when she
I know, my husband would say I’m making it all about me at this point, but I never understand that, I have to look after my own sanity first or I can’t look after anyone else. Am I not allowed a point where enough is enough?
I then get a phone call from the friends mother who now fears she will have to house my daughter and proceeds
I want to tell her what happened with my older daughter when I tried to pull her in line and advise her against trying to control her daughters actions and relationships but who am I to give parenting advice!
She tells me she thinks I’m a good parent as Chloe is
Mike knows me too well and takes
Fortunately we got watching a good programme and I didn’t drink too much but I still feel lost this morning and like things will never get easier.
Mike wants to take me to watch the accountant today as he says it’s like me before my meds (not the shooting people of course, I think he means the obsessive behaviour?!) but even that reminds me
Maybe I am just feeling sorry for myself after all 🙁
*This post is from my long running blog about being an autistic parent to 6 kids with various diagnoses of problems.
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