Hot to Trot: The World of Post-Divorce Sex

Victoria Lim - 27 Dec 17

The fact that you’re no longer married doesn’t have to mean the absolute end of your sex life. In fact, divorce can bring you a lot of great things in this area of your life, and all you should do is to be open-minded and ready for some new amazing experiences. Here are four fantastic improvements post-divorce sex can bring you, so check them out and enjoy!

Sex after divorce can significantly improve your self-esteem

Even though starting to have sex after divorce can be extremely challenging and frustrating experience, the fact is that it can significantly improve your self-confidence and make you feel much better about yourself. Many women claim that sex during their marriage did absolutely nothing for their self-esteem, simply because it was basically a part of their routine or some type of schedule, which didn’t feel sexy at all. Besides that, these women also say that they didn’t have problems with their husbands because they weren’t saying nice things, but on the contrary – because they were saying and doing the same things over and over again. That’s exactly why post-divorce sex felt so great – knowing that someone else craves your body and tells you how attractive you are is a fantastic turn-on, which can boost your self-confidence and help you rediscover your sexuality more than you can think!

It’s more than liberating as well

Having sex with someone else can be extremely liberating, especially if you had issues with your husband regarding this aspect of your life. Many people claim that problems in bed, no matter how irrelevant they may seem, often lead to more serious problem that can actually result in divorce, which is why they need to be taken care of as soon as they first appear. Many couples struggle with such problems, and erectile dysfunction is one of the most common. This problem is perceived as the most frustrating one by both men and women, and couples try very hard to find a solution. However, once they find it and things start to be normal again, they often realize that the key to their problem lies in something completely different, which is why divorce is, unfortunately, the only option left anyways. Even though divorce is usually very hard, both emotionally and physically, the fact is that it can bring only the best – especially in terms of your sex life, which was on a standby for a long time.

The ‘no strings attached’ philosophy at its finest

That brings us to the no strings attached philosophy, which describes the post-divorce sex in the best possible way. This basically means that you’re allowed to have mind-blowing sex that’ll awake all your senses with a guy you’ve just met, without feeling obliged to make him a breakfast and wash his underwear the morning after. Even though it may sound really silly and unconventional, trust us – this will bring you back to life after divorce! You don’t have to play those ridiculous love games in order for anyone to like you – just be straightforward and let him know what you’re up to. If you just want to have fun and get laid, go for it! Take a man home, do what you were up to, and he can leave – unless you want to do it one more time. As simple as that!

It can fulfill your fantasies and cut down on any inhibitions

After having sex with one man for years, being with someone new is a completely new adventure that can make you feel like a goddess once again. Each guy can bring something new and exciting into your bedroom, kitchen, or into your shower. Exploring different types of men can open your eyes and help you realize that having sex doesn’t have to be just a part of your everyday routine, but something you can enjoy to the fullest, without having any inhibitions. You should know that miracles can happen when two sexualities meet, which can result in a breathtaking experience and fulfilling your deepest fantasies, which is exactly what you need after years of bad sex life. These new experiences will really open your eyes and make you realize what was missing in your marriage, so embrace that knowledge and change whatever was wrong in the past!

As you can see, post-divorce sex can be truly liberating and beneficial on so many levels, first of all when it comes to improving your self-confidence and helping you feel attractive after a really long time. Besides that, it can help you enjoy your sex life without any inhibitions, while fulfilling all your fantasies at the same time. Does it get better than that? We don’t think so!

Victoria Lim

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