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It had to be you – Written to go
But, could they ever really take your place? This got me thinking about our USP’s, Unique Selling Points.
What makes us unique in the eyes of our Mr Darcy? Is it even
During the wedding speeches, will you dispense with words and just stare and shake your heads silently at each other in awe of this phenomenon?
Is it just a feeling? Or more than a feeling? (Boston). An intense connection that you are at a loss to put words to? Is this why so much art is about love because it is so damn hard to define it in it’s purest form?
Is it like trying to understand the lyrics of Procol Harum’s Whiter Shade of Pale? I was feeling kinda of seasick, but the crowd cried out
Imagine the two of you are pieces of a jigsaw that when fitted alongside each other make a complete picture. Picture perfect. You make sense. Literally, life makes sense with purpose and love shared. No laboratory experiment could determine what you feel. It’s inexplicable.
Can it be explained by biology or physiology?
In long-term attachment relationships our
Poems and songs are what we turn to in times of need.
To encapsulate the emotion of bereavement, a poem might speak to you.
If I were to play you It Had to be you, by Barbara Streisand and Michael Buble, you’d understand better how I felt about my Alejandro. Even more so, Bailando by Enrique Iglesias. And for extra insight, All Of me, by Diana Ross and Julio Iglesias. It’s all terribly passionate, dear reader.
So what if someone had a very similar tessellating
Or, are we, like fingerprints completely unique? Irreplaceable you. It had to be you.
If I were to look at USP’s in a potential love interest, I might cite intelligence, dark latin brooding sexy looks, a body that would
Imagine that such an adonis of an Alejandro really did exist, and for whatever reason I didn’t see him as often as I’d like. What are the chances of another man, let’s call him Roberto, popping up and offering a near-perfect set of attributes? Reading my list, that’s pretty unlikely, but is what binds our pieces together, when they are a perfect coupling, supersedable?
Do you feel confident enough in your match that no one else will have the exact
My mind turns to literary characters from great love stories. Mr Rochester for example. He of brooding dark good looks and a heavy but kind stare. He would be pretty hard to get a replacement for.
Wanted: Solitary man, who has a mad wife living in the attic. Dark brooding looks, essential. An unlucky sort who must be prepared to suffer a limp and loss of sight in one eye. Needs an indecently young
And Jane Eyre herself. Not an easy commodity to come by. Orphan with a benefactor, not classically beautiful. Clever and keen eyes. Cautiously fun loving and understanding. Must like dark brooding sexy men who don’t talk much. Must not get too freaked out with mad wives in the attic and not ask questions.
I think this goes to prove this love thing is completely the luck of the draw. Meeting the right person at the right time and the two of you together, the unity of who you become is your USP. Together you are a newly
A Novel: of a kind not seen before; fresh; new; original. From the Latin novellus.
The romantic in me, believes in this precise interlocking of components, to make an unique whole. Neither piece can be replaced. There’s no substitute for Cristiano Ronaldo. When he’s on the subs bench, there is much anxious chewing of gum.
The other thing about Ronaldo (apart from his six pack and cheekbones) is that when Sir Alex Ferguson signed him aged 18, for Manchester
And so it is with love. You don’t know what completeness you’re looking for or needing until it bounds into your life unexpectedly. And then, you can’t imagine living without it, and hope that no transfer windows give it a better offer.
So, dear
We may not be everyones cup of tea, but there will be someone who likes our milky, steaming hot, Lady Grey tea served in a bone china cup with a saucer. They are out there somewhere. Just remember to keep the kettle filled up and a supply of Jaffa Cakes, for when they decide to come knocking, cuban heels, whiff of Brut and all.
Yours, Carolina