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Never Again, Actually does mean never again..
But there are 3 things I do remember and will remember for the rest of my life, even when I am senile, even when I can’t remember who he is or how I like my coffee…
The day I found out I was pregnant for the second time I
Day by day my belly grew, day by day I had to explain to family and strangers that no we didn’t plan him but yes we were very happy, which was a lie, I didn’t even acknowledge its very existence, I
One afternoon we went for our second scan not intending on finding out its sex, we just wanted to make sure it wasn’t a lobster or a duck, what I had not intended on, was how much my partner actual did want this baby and how happy and excited he was to become a Dad again, even more surprising was that he wanted to know the sex, he wanted to immediately
Loving Oliver in my belly, loving Emily on my lap and loving Joe by my side was euphoric, It was my close and visible future, It was my new goal, I was going to be a whole new person, I
I started to get very ill, I was a total real life Mombie, I actually fell asleep sat up whist having breakfast a few mornings, which at the time seemed funny and understandable as I was looking after a toddler as well as being mucho mucho pregnant, after a little while I knew something was wrong and we went for tests and found out at 31weeks I had gestational diabetes, we had gone this whole pregnancy never realising and no one had thought to have tested me ”as they could never really tell how overweight I was”
So in the morning I did my GTT (Glucose Tolerance Test) and in the afternoon we went for a scan to check in on little Oliver. We walked into scan room 1, I laid on the bed pulled my top up and gave my big belly a poke to wake him up, the nurse immediately found his heart beat and showed us his beautiful face and his arms and legs waving and kicking away. She did a run down of precautionary tests and one by one checked them off on her list until she got to his brain, she left the room, came back and measured 3 more times, my heart was beating
We left the building in a slow silence, my face was burning and all Joe wanted to do was surpass his pain
That evening they confirmed I had Gestational Diabetes.
A week later Oliver was diagnosed with a 10mm Ventriculomegaly on his
These are the things that are burnt into me, these things are the things I will never ever forget! The rest of my pregnancy was a haze of blood tests, scans, hospital appointments and MRI’s, we were told to be prepared for him to be born with special needs or that he may not even be able to make it to us, he might be born forever asleep.
And all those things I could handle, all those things I took on board like a programmed Mum robot, I did my day to day in a numb daze, I went to all my scans and only every asked if they thought he would
On the 5th June 2014 I was medically induced and Oliver came in the night, I laboured for 3hrs whilst on sleeping tablets, I had no idea what was happening, I just kept apologising for weeing myself, at 5:15am Oliver John was born 7lb7oz, he was perfect in every single way.
Last month we cerebrated his second birthday..
Joe is on the vasectomy waiting list..
Now our fragile hearts are
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