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One & done
Yep, to anyone who wants to ask “no we won’t be having another baby”. There’s something about ‘only’ having one that causes people to ask “so when’s baby number two arriving?” its like a reflex reaction, as if the thought of sticking with one child isn’t normal, surely there must be more. As it turns out when I look to the future it doesn’t include another ‘hit by a train’ style birth or pacing up and down the hall at three in the morning praying the little poppet stops crying and goes to sleep before I actually die of
Don’t get me wrong, its not that I don’t love being a mum because I do (which is lucky because thats all I do!) but I’m not sure I’m built to be a mum of two. I went through a BIG broody phase last year when the NCT mates were getting knocked-up again, not that I wanted a baby at that point (the thought of having a two year old AND a newborn gives me cold sweats) but I wasn’t ready to never be pregnant again. Nature is
This year things feel different, a bit like the old cliche ‘getting my life back’. Pre-school starts this week and I’ll actually have time to get my shit together and start doing some grown up stuff like work (or blogging because that’s cooler and more fun). Life with one is surely
I was clearing out ‘baby’ stuff the other day and I felt sad to have to get rid of things. It probably sounds daft but anything she has touched as a baby is irreplaceable so must be hoarded and stored forever and ever. Not the Vtech Crawl & Learn ball though, that can piss off. I
Will just have to reassure myself that she WILL have friends and she WON’T be socially impaired because she doesn’t have a sibling at home to kick the crap out her, tease her ALL the time, and steal her stuff. I read that Adele is an only child, so it must be a good thing. Hormones are a cruel mistress
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