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Simple Steps to a Successful Summer Staycation
I’m a week into our 12 week mammoth expat Canadian summer holiday: we’ve had a couple of days of rain and more than a few days of an absent husband but I’m feeling pretty confident we can pull this off.
12 weeks, 4 children and no planned holidays. <panic stricken face>
Here’s what I’m doing to make sure the next 11 weeks will be a success:
Earlyish mornings
One of our four children wouldn’t mind staying asleep until a prematurely-teenaged
All that to say: no long lie-ins for any of us (sad face).
No pressure
Otherwise known as, consciously avoiding the nagging feelings of guilt around not entertaining all your children, all of the time. Boredom is a key element to a lot of the most imaginative play (backed up by science) and so I’m happy to let some days stretch out ahead of them with no plans and no
Divide and conquer
I love watching our four together and spending time as a big group.
But I also know that children really appreciate the odd, fleeting moment where they get to be alone with a parent. So we will make time for the odd solo outing.
Also: a truth universally acknowledged, that once you have any number of children, the moment you have one less under your care suddenly everything seems very easy (and quiet).
Another lightbulb moment was the introduction of ’recharge hour’ in our house,
Orthodontics
Unfortunately and not me this time. Sometimes holidays just have a bit of unavoidable admin.
In the Garden
I have never been so grateful to have a beautiful (fenced) garden. Mr tMatM has been busy making it beautiful enough that I never need to leave.
The garden is also one of the easiest places to entertain a group of mixed-age children in a simple way without lots of expensive equipment.
Favourite activities:
Water
Balls; hula hoops; chalk; fairy houses made from stones collected on walks; stones collected on walks for painting or drawing on with chalk, and stones collected on walks for stone collections. Just stones – or sticks for that matter – (but no hurt feelings).
Also, bringing out toys that
Brio trains outside; very different from Brio trains inside
The older children are also normally keen to join in with any gardening so these rakes and this spade (a super gift) have been well-loved. The toddlers of the house like to collect things in a wheelbarrow, which is also surprisingly helpful.
The ultimate back-up plan, my children love to wash their bikes, and who am I to stop them?
Books Books Books
12 weeks is long enough to just about read an entire school
So the summer will include plenty of trips to the library and plenty of reading.
Also: unlike requests for screen time, and in the spirit of independence, reading is one of those activities that children can embrace fully in the knowledge as a request parents won’t ever deny. (Some favourite books here, here, and a fresh list coming soon).
I
Low-key Daytrips
As in, make the most of familiar, easy and local destinations.
The beach is still one of our favourite spots, despite being significantly less easy now that all of the four are busy instead of one or two sleeping soundly in a buggy or baby carrier.
Everyone is
Ambitious Daytrips
It’s not a holiday until you’ve tried to venture further than your usual 15-minutes-in-the-car radius and had some successes and failures.
Yesterday we had our first trip exploring a little further afield with a surprisingly successful outward journey, a beautiful destination and the classic end, a slightly hellish return journey. The
The beautiful destination part of the day (hellish return journey model’s own)
Art
Coming your way soon: more summer smug and lazy art projects. For now… here are some old but good ones. I also just invested in some new paints and brushes. Obviously our first creative endeavor on receiving said art materials was the classic ’paint the amazon delivery box’ activity.
Most of all though this summer – I am really enjoying having them at home.
Surprisingly, in many ways a long summer holiday is less stressful
Shortly after the successful outward journey (aka, still smug)
Happy summer! tMatM x
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