When, Why and How: Getting Your Children Their First Pet

Amy Williams - 21 Jun 17

It’s hardly possible to find a parent who doesn’t want all the best for his or her child. It’s an inherent part of parenthood to be on a constant look-out for ideas to make kids happy and healthy and entertained. Some bet on extra-curricular activities, others emphasize sports activities, while the rest might believe that communication with peers is the key. Every child is unique, that’s why it wouldn’t be smart to search for a one-size-fits-all solution. But what if I tell you there is actually one idea absolutely all kids love? The good news there is one thing that tends to make happier kids of all genders, ages, temper, and interests. Itching to learn what I’m talking about? Read on to learn.

Pets are Kids’ Best Friends

If you had a pet when you were a kid, you’ll agree it’s fantastic to grow up with a four-legged friend by your side. You surely have plenty of heart-warming memories of you and your pet having fun together. Raise your hand if what I’m saying is true.

Not only is having pets make childhood happier, but it is also believed to improve children’s mental and physical health. And in case you roll your eyes saying ‘It’s nothing but a myth’, you should know it is not an assumption but a well-documented fact. So if your kids have been asking for adopting a pet for months, maybe it’s time to make their dream come true.

However, don’t rush it. Not all pets are equally good for your kids, so there are things you should learn before letting a four-legged friend inside your home.

When?

To being with, you need to make sure your kids are old enough for the animal you’re going to adopt. Of course, there is no official rule saying that, for example, kids under the age 7 should not have hamsters, but there are certain best practices you’d better follow.

For instance, if you only consider small pets and your kids are under age 6, you’d better choose between small cage pets like mice or gerbils. However, certain small-sized dogs are also fine.

If your kids are a bit older, between 6 and 10, your choice gets wider. As kids of this age are already know how to take care of pets, you can think of dogs, tortoises, and birds.

As for all those older than ten, it’s ok to choose virtually any animal you and your children like. Cats, dogs, rabbits are all a good option. School age kids tend to be more responsible and attentive in regards to their home animals, which means even those pets requiring a lot of care might be just fine.

Why?

There are many reasons why adopting a pet for your kids is a good idea, but some are chief among the rest. Let’s take a look at the most important ones.

• Pets can teach kids responsibility and empathy.
• Pets help kids improve communication skills and increase their self-esteem.
• With pets at home, children are less likely to feel lonely or bored.
• It’s scientifically proven that pets can alleviate stress and anxiety in kids.

How?

Even if your kids have been asking for a pet for a long time, you still act too quick. Before making a final decision, have a serious conversation with your kids. Tell them what kind of responsibilities you expect them to take care of, ask them about their own expectations. Establish the rules and emphasize the importance of following them. You can even go as far as to sign a contract with your kids to make them take things seriously. Your kids should understand that adopting a pet is a serious decision that requires commitment and responsibility.

For the Finals.

If you’re still in doubt whether or not your kids need a pet, here is a sign: yes, they do. Nothing compares to growing up with a fluffy friend around. Don’t miss out on such a great experience you and your children might have.

Amy Williams

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