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RIP my leather trousers…
I think the concept of maternity wear has got a pretty bad rap over time – deservedly so if you do a
So, there’s a plan in place…to on the whole not buy maternity wear. With the exception of some basic items that I’ve come to accept need to have severe waist elastic (maternity jeans I’m talking about you), and
I’ve done a fair bit of research, so here’s the plan, and some good resources. I’m not necessarily going for value in terms of cheapest items here – I don’t mind spending a bit of money, as long as I
In the name of that, one of the best of resources I have found is http://www.nineinthemirror.com . Think of it as the Netaporter for pregnant women – it stocks both maternity and non-maternity wear, but they’ve curated and road tested everything for you, and each item has commentary as to why it will be good for maternity, how long it will last you through the pregnancy, and how to style it. I wish I’d invented it myself, and it’s a great resource to keep you excited about your clothing
Likewise, COS is brilliant for tops that have a bit of give at the front, a structured shape, and will carry you through the first and second trimester nicely, and still be good to go for when the baby has arrived. I already had a few of their tops that are suiting me nicely, and when I’ve worn them most people haven’t even
So, onto my maternity style rules (all the photos link to where you can buy the items):
(1) Get the maternity jeans sorted
As far as I’m concerned, this is the bit that comes first. I was still fitting into my own jeans pre-christmas (and no, it’s not just that I indulged in one too many bits of Christmas pudding), but they were leaving me with that delightful line across my stomach, and
There are a ton of brands that have spied the pregnancy pound opportunity and developed product in this area (so if you’re normally a JBrand or Paige fan when it comes to denim, there’s something for you), but I’m a big believer in Topshop when it comes to maternity denim. They do all the same styles, and then either provide elasticated side waist panels, a small elasticated panel at the front, or
[Topshop Jamie Black Jeans above – I got these in black, grey & dark blue – bingo – tons of outfits sorted]
[Topshop Lucas Jeans – Lots of people say skinny jeans are the only way forward during
(2) Get some longer length, good quality stretchy tops
Finding good basic t-shirts & longer sleeve tops is always something I’m on the look out for – and American vintage has shown me the way (COS can be pretty good too). They’re thin, great to layer, and longer line. This part is still to be tested, but they feel like the kind of material that will stretch, but not lose it’s
[American Vintage Vest-top]
[American Vintage Long Sleeved Top]
Zoe Karssen also does great statement T-shirts. They’re made from beautiful, slightly woollen material, are longer line, and more skimming than fitted. Her signature symbol is a bat and features on quite a few of the items.
[Zoe Karssen’s Tops above – there’s quite a few on sale on NineinTheMirror at the moment, so check out the full selection!]
(3) Shorter, A line dresses are your best friend
This one
For me, that’s my legs, which so far (and fingers crossed here) haven’t swelled yet – so for now, I’m still going to get them out. I already had a couple of good denim A line dresses that I’m still wearing (and denim is great because of the stiffness of material), both of which are a few years old now – one from
[Sportmax Dress]
[Topshop Raw Edge Denim Boutique Dress]
[COS printed denim dress]
(4) Shirt dresses make you feel chic and pared back, and smooth things out nicely
Again, COS is great for these, and TopShop have also had some nice versions (although on the whole I like the thickness of the COS ones more). The work well over skinny jeans in winter, with nice statement necklaces; or as a dress on their own with tights, or without and some wedges in summer, so you can still feel a bit glam and dressed up as you expand.
[COS
(5) Long waistcoast and duster jackets give your figure structure & your outfit a bit of interest
I already owned a great long line grey waistcoat that I got from Topshop, that looks great with skinny jeans and a long T-shirt; or with skinny leather trousers.
You can’t get this exact one anymore, but I’ve found some alternatives below:
[Karen Millen Tweed Waistcoat]
[Topshop sleeveless jacket – they also do this in grey]
For duster jackets, TopShop again is great; as is COS, examples below. I had
[This Topshop beauty I’ve had for an age – alternatives below]
[Topshop duster jacket – in sale]
For later in the pregnancy, I’ve seen these belted above the bump, which can look lovely and accentuate your smaller size above the belly.
(6) If you’re pregnant in winter, a coat that is open; and allows you to layer is crucial
I like wearing blazers with a T-shirt & jeans or leather trousers for work, and this look is great
I’ve found that capes work brilliantly – Zara does lovely ones, and if you’re really wanting to splash out (and I’m promising myself this kind of item at some point), you can gaze ardently at items like this Missoni cape, most definitely a life investment.
[The more manageable cost option! One of Zara’s lovely capes – worth
[The lifetime investment – The Missoni Cape – on sale at the moment]
Cocoon coats are also great. They’re big, roomy, yet structured with a ‘fashion shape’. My most recent discovery is a brand called Paper London – they sell online, but they also have a pop up on Tottenham Court Road. Their coats are lovely, although I defy you to go in and not shed a little tear about their amazing jumpsuits that are most definitely not pregnancy friendly.
[Paper London Micro coat]
And longer thicker coats in a duster
[Drop Shoulder coat by Emerson Fry]
COS are also worth checking out as they do similar items.
(7) Embrace the trainer / brogue / loafer
Now, I’m not saying you’re going to give up heels in pregnancy, I’m most certainly not. But, in the mind-set of buying things that will see you
Adidas Stan Smith’s are always a classic, go with everything (as do white / grey converse), and I think are a steal for how good they look.
[The classic – The Stan Smith]
I think everyone has to have their ‘lust’ trainer – for me they often get released by Saint Laurent – I treated myself to their silver pair a couple of years ago, and this year my amazing husband bought me
[Saint Laurent Beauty’s – the high tops with blue & red are also amazing]
For brogues / loafers / ballet shoes – whatever your flat shoe of choice is, I always think Zara / COS / Topshop are worth checking out. I have some nude brogues I wear to death from Zara, and I’ve had them for about 3 years. I have nude ballet shoes that I buy repeatedly from Topshop as soon as my pair becomes grubby and a bit battered (translate – start to let water in) as they’re literally about a
[The COS shoes that I own several pairs of, and literally go with everything]
[COS Brogues]
(7) A
Particularly as you expand and the clothes perhaps have to become that bit more floaty, chucking your leather jacket on top immediately makes it feel just that bit more ‘you’. And if you’ve purchased your nice open winter coat, you can layer up nicely too. Mine was a steal from All Saints of all places, and I have worn it to death, and continue to do so.
[All Saints Leather Jacket]
(8) Leather trousers have a very similar role….
I’m still working on
After SO much searching, I have this pair on order…I’ll report back..
[Citizens of Humanity Skinny Racer Maternity Jeans]
If you want a good overview of leather trousers for post pregnancy and beyond, check out the brilliant www.instagram.com/dresslikeamum site as she’s done a great review of them this week: http://www.dresslikeamum.com/blog/2016/1/16/leather-trousers
(3) Jumpsuits and dungarees are brilliant pre-baby and post baby
The caveat here is that I’m obviously not talking about the form fitting kind. I
However, the kind that are looser, and probably fall into what my husband (affectionately I hope) calls my painter / workman / petrol-station outfits work really well. Just roll up the sleeves and the legs so the thinner parts of you still show, and add a good necklace, and
[My COS ones are still available and in the sale – but just in a few sizes]
[Hatch jumpsuit]
(8) Get something you love to brighten up your outfit
Some of my family got me Net a Porter vouchers for Christmas
[Theory Shearling Vest]
I’m in love with it. It feels a bit glam and fun over jeans or leather trousers; it layers well over my leather jacket (ticks the same box as the open coat on that front) and makes me feel like a bit of a rock star. Maybe I’ll look ridiculous in
Likewise, accessorising with scarves that you love to brighten up simple tops, or bigger statement necklaces to draw the eye up and away from the bump, or amazing shoes because, well, there is no real reason you have to have to buy amazing shoes…just buy some stuff that makes you happy. I’ve decided that now is the time to splurge, because post baby a whole host of other costs are going to come our way, and having a wardrobe that will look good now, when I’m still getting back into
If you have any maternity dressing tips of your own, let me know! In the meantime, I’m collecting any good stuff I find on this pinterest board https://uk.pinterest.com/cdowsett/dressing-the-bump/, so do check it out if you want some inspiration.
Caroline x